Dr. Berman, I am concerned for my roommate. I let her move in when she and her boyfriend split up. She has been in a funk for about 3 months. Over the last month, I noticed her drinking has picked up and I also have noticed that the packages from amazon are coming at a much faster rate. I think she drinks in her room at night and then just orders random things. I don’t know what’s in the boxes because she doesn’t talk about it. Half the time she looks surprised when things show up at the house. I want to talk to her about it—but what do I address first? I think she’s drinking too much, blacking out, and spending more than she can afford. What problem do I tackle first? Or, is it none of my business? Victoria