Dr. Berman- When I met my boyfriend we had the same position at work just at different companies. He was all for me being “equal” to him on a money level. About 3 months ago, I got a promotion and more money and things changed a lot. When it comes to dinner- he says things like- well you’re the money bags now... It’s your turn to pay. I also borrowed 20 dollars from him in cash to pay a delivery tip and he said I needed to give it back to him ASAP. This was after I had paid for the actual 100 dollar meal being delivered to us. It seems like he is mad at me because I am making more money- but that’s not my fault. What do I do here?