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Posted by By: Dr. Laura Berman on January 15 2019
Dr. Berman - My 50+ yr old husband was chatting/texting with an 18 yr old girl thru the chat feature of an online game for approximately 3 months. They never met or even saw pictures of each other but their conversations were very sexual in nature and it got to the point where they were both telling each other that they missed and loved one another. When I caught him he told me that she'd been expressing her love for him and eventually he wrote "in a weird way I think I love you". He originally told me he THOUGHT he loved her, that she was sick, that she had no friends, which she said no one else loved her that he felt sorry for her. Eventually very soon after he told me that he really never loved her. So why wouldn't he just say that?? When I ask him, he says he doesn't know and that if he had an answer he'd tell me. And he swears he never loved her. If that was true, why not just tell her that in the beginning? We have been together for more than 30 years and this whole thing has shattered my heart. He does things daily to prove his love to me and is so remorseful but I still struggle a lot with the fact that he told her he loved her and I don't know how to get it out of my head permanently! Can you help me understand? Candace
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