Dr Berman- My mother in law is a monster. She has always thought that my husband’s previous girlfriend was the one that got away. She tells me and him this all the time. Recently, his ex got divorced and now his mother is asking her for coffee and then sending my husband updates on this woman’s life and whereabouts. It is downright disrespectful. He has told her that she needs to stop, but she is relentless. We are trying to get pregnant and she’s constantly asking him if he really wants to go through with it. I’m not sure what I did to her, but this has to stop. What do I do? Jessica