Dr. Berman- before I met my husband and got married I had a little fling with a guy from my gym. It lasted only a few months. I never told my husband about it, and while it was amazing, it was just a fling. I still see him at the gym though and we flirt but nothing serious. So- my husband just told me that we are going away this weekend to Turks and Caicos for the 4th and wouldn’t you know... my fling will be there too with a few of his friends. They’re also staying at our resort. It’s a small resort. I am bound to see him. My question is... do I have to tell my husband the past? He kind of thinks he knows about everyone… I left this guy out on purpose just because I didn’t want it to be weird about the gym or anything. What do I do?