Dr. Berman- I am 42 and met a really great guy. Here’s the thing- he’s 30. I know I look good for my age, and he tells me how pretty I am all the time. I should have nothing to be worried about and yet constantly I feel like people are looking at us and thinking that I am too old for him. I also worry that in a few years, the age difference is really going to be noticeable. He says that I am being crazy- but I don’t know. I won’t be able to compete with women closer to his age for much longer. I’m really crazy about him but I’m scared he’ll leave when I start to look my age. What do I do?